I watched my dad beat my mother every day of my life for 9 years until she od’d. Ive never seen a man cry that much. Its human nature to react to violence and some of is do it more than others. But why judge people when you can help them? If a man hits his wife she shouldn’t leave. “till death do us part”. I’m not saying she should sit back and take it either. Compromise and be there for your husband. Work it out and find out why he does the things he does. There are alternative reasons to leaving the man you love alone forever. I always asked myself how my mom could sit back and take it for so long and then I got in an abusive relationship. I fought back and hit him so many times and the whole time I was picturing my dads face. I stopped and we cried together he told me his dad always beat him when he was younger. His mom left. She was addicted to meth and he kept everything bottled up inside just like me. Until it exploded. Look, what I’m trying to say is there’s always something hidden. There’s always a reason behind violence. And to all those feminist bitches who say women are equal to men then complain about a guy hitting you if you slapped him first. Get the fuck over yourself. If you can dish it sit back an take it.
Oh my GOD some people do actually think the way the OP does.
You watched him beat your mother and she OD’d and your concern lies with HIS TEARS?!
I……..wait, is this legit? Like is this person serious? That CANNOT be the case, I fucking refuse to believe it…
I watched my father beat my sister’s mother when they were dating, he tore her clothes. It has been like 14 or 15 years since that happened and I can clearly remember it. My father also beat my mother when they were together, most of the time it was when she was pregnant with me. You can bet your ass that if any man hit me in anger, no matter if he apologized first, I would leave. That shit don’t fly around here.
If someone truly loves you, they will want you to leave if they hit you. If I were to hit my daughter, I want her father and step mother to take her away from me. I want her to be safe and happy.
My need to have her near me is secondary to that.
That is true love. True love is wanting what is best for someone.
The part about “‘til death do us part” is really not much more than ceremonial—in reality, very often meaningless. I think the only thing you be bound to do until the day you die is be a good person. That includes not abusing people you love.
I don’t think that hitting someone automatically means you don’t love them, since you can’t fairly define someone else’s feelings for them, but if you aren’t loving in practice, then the only person who cares whether that loves exists or not is you.
(Source: the-unpopular-opinions)
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DUMBASS DO YOU NEED TO BE TO THINK THIS WAY? BELIEVE IT OR NOT, PEOPLE DON’T LIKE TO BE VIOLENTLY VICTIMIZED. IF YOU HIT...
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love and protect part...the marriage vows? If your husband can’t keep
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You know, I’ve had face to face conversations like this with people and the only thing I can say is: “You’re wrong.”...
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i just cant with this…
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…I…what? Seriously?
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Just what in the actual fuck is this? Please, let me find you so I can personally fuck you up.
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midnightstorm6593 reblogged this from kurenai24 and added:
His wife didn’t just leave him for hitting her…she left him because he’s clearly an asshole.
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But for real though… what is the matter with you? This is so stupid half of me thinks this person must just be trolling....
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Is this fuckery for real?
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….he’s kidding, right?
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This is sarcasm or satire …right?
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This is a fucking joke right?
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That’s the biggest load of crap I’ve read in a while. This is why he’ll die a lonely man.
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i think its funny cuz this dude really feels this way. this muthafucka just needs to find a bitch who, when hits him in...
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^ this is why I will always be employed. -___-;
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What a fuck mook.
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I dont even know what to say….what the fuck..???
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people can’t tell sarcasm anymore. lol.
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No you can’t just beat him up he didn’t do anything to deserve it
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Then it’s okay if I beat him up while shouting “EQUALITY MOTHERFUCKER”, right? If I follow his logic, that’s totally...
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